Are you worried about what others might think of you if you buy a realistic lifelike sex doll? We understand! We Really Do It Unfortunately, sex doll owners are often portrayed as socially awkward loners who are unable to have normal relationships. We know that nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, people who buy sex dolls are almost always sexually positive, progressive, and smart people.
Social acceptance of sex toys and sex dolls
Not long ago, the subject of masturbation was taboo. Very few people would admit to participating in their own pleasure. Even fewer would admit to having seen porn regularly. What about sex toys? Forget this! Most men and women would have died before they recognized that they owned a vibrator or a pocket kitten.
Now the conversations about sex toys, pornography, and masturbation have completely changed. People openly acknowledge that they masturbate. Women not only acknowledge having vibrators and other sex toys, but they also have parties where these items are bought and sold.
We think this is wonderful. Even better, we truly believe that owning a sex doll will be considered with equal acceptance in the future.
So why the lack of acceptance?
We truly believe that in a few years, owning a sex doll will fully normalize. No, not everyone will choose to have one, but it will certainly be accepted. In the meantime, here are a few reasons why we think people are slow to warm up with the idea that sex dolls are healthy and normal.
Sex dolls are expensive and that makes people uncomfortable
Let’s be honest. People have strange ideas about money and sex. If you spend $ 1,800 on a sex doll, that will surprise you. Should I however? Think about it. A sex doll can last for years. However, some of the following expenses are barely noticeable:
- Spend hundreds of dollars in the VIP room of a strip club.
- Buy a vibrator for $ 100, then replace that vibrator every year or so.
- Pay premium memberships for dating and hookup sites.
- Buying porn.
Most people pay, somehow, to have the kind of sex we want. We also pay to have the amount of sex we want
Sex toys and pornography are easily hidden from view
Vibrators and sex toys can be tucked into nightstand drawers or hidden under pillows. Browser histories can be cleaned to remove almost all evidence that someone has been viewing porn.
That is not necessarily true for sex dolls. They are bigger. They do not fold carefully. Yes there are excellent storage options for your sex doll. Still, a sex doll is not an 8-inch vibrator. It is also not a magic wand that you can pretend to be a “massager”.
Final thoughts: can increase acceptance
If you have a sex doll, or plan to buy one, there are things you can do to change attitudes about sex dolls. First, be open with your positive sexual friends about this. If they are comfortable acknowledging that they watch pornography or own sex toys, they should also accept your interests. If they fight, remind them that puritanical attitudes would have once judged them with the same harshness. The idea is to increase the association between ownership of sex dolls and people who are successful, thoughtful, and emotionally intelligent.